Depending on which site I take test I get different result. When I take what is as I think classic test I usually get INTJ but I need more time to finish it since every other word is not common used in English and I need to check it meaning in dictionary (English is not my mother language). But when I take test which is easier in means that is written by using more common words and doesn't have 5 options just 2 to chose like yes or no I get INFJ result.
I am organized, punctual, responsible. I like people generally, have friends, but some of them drain me out so I see them when I am in good mood, some of them are nice to be around in any time. I need time after to fill up, but not with all of them some of them inspire me and make me full of energy to try new ideas.
I can aprocah people in large group, start&maintain small talk I am not to much shy but I dont like to be in center of attention of large group like in jobs of a lecturer or performer.
I prefer meeting friends on one or with no more then 2 friends in same time. I am agreeable I can find some theme to talk with almost anybody, but that doesn't make me them my friends for friendship is needed more basic ideals and similar emotions or to say I need more similarity and other personalty traits to make a friend. I couldn't agree with some persons few times in my life but my husband says not to worry I can not like everybody. Lack of punctuality and organization seriously goes on my nerves, but since half of my friends are artist to that is something like a part of their character and I forgive them often because they are good and caring.
I like to see bigger picture. But I can focus on details in work. I love my work and when I get task all other stop being so important till it is finished. But even it is like that I am putting love life as most important think, and I have found my soul mate after years of searching and mistakes. I get very sad when I broke up but I never start thinking words like there is no one for me or I would never love again like some of my friends, instead of that I continue search hoping I learned from mistakes and that next man would be more perfect.
I meet my husband accidentally but I never felt so nice in some relationship like it is now for already 3 years. He and some of my friends are ISTJ by chart we are not ideal for echoder but in real we make it great and he is not closed about showing me his feelings and I like that I always know what I am getting or the openness, he is even more organized and punctual then I am in some things in some am I. There is only few things we dont agree but they are not vital. As designer to me home interior is of high importance if it not all perfectly combined and beautiful I fell blue, he on other hand doesn't care about beauty at all just about things being functional example I sort books by color and shape of their binding (I am book designer&illustrator) and then from they theme, he dont care about color even dont see different in shades or design just the essence or the theme in them. I am angry when I am sitting at home when sun is shining outside so I walk alone or go out on coffee with friends, he would rather stay in side with no guilt that sun is outside and play game:-) I love games to but I fell guilt when playing them in sense that I am wasting my time. I play mostly strategies that can help me learn something and rather read articles on internet about themes I am interested in then to play, but i understand addiction in games as a teen I have been truth it:-)And about money we have for example same amount, when I was kid I saved some amount every month to buy thing at the end of year. But being influenced by western way of right away shopping and my woman part who like shop I sometimes spend 50% of my earning right away on stuff I need and try to menage with rest of money for food and bills and lay low till next month is near. And my husband is like me in teen years he saves every month a little in various pockets for different purposes then he spends it at the end of some time period of saving on think he wanted. We never take loans if we dont have for something we need we just wait to save it till we have enough and post phone wish only thing in which loan is assessable if our health were in danger and we should need money for operation then we would borrow it. I have cosines who spend all they have at the end of moth and after they complain even they have more money then me I usually make them financial plan but they rarely manage to stick to it. I live up in country which were under sanctions for years and I learned to save, to me seeing crisis in world now is nothing to what we gone thought. I am to emotional in love life. When it is alright and when I am loved I can continue and dedicate my self to work and art, if I am without special someone I am lost, I must love someone even just in on line relationship to feel fulfilled (this is about past now I am in happy relationship but I think that behavior is not changed). I dont know what more would be important to say I used some practical examples and wrote what I remembered.