Which type describes me?

I like to go out and have fun and adventure plus, I'm easy going and one for jokes. However, I am protective of my family and I sometimes like to think alone. I like to go through life one day at a time and keep my options open, but I have a few organized consistencies in my life and I'm loyal to my friends and family. Athletic and competitive, very honest and tough minded with others. I notice and memorize many things. Hardworking, when given self interest motivation and sometimes without self interest. Sometimes a bit of a show off. A hands on learner, a practical person. Used to have a wide circle of friends, but now just a few.

Estp

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Have you looked at cognitive functions?
ESTP: Se-Ti-Fe-Ni
ESTJ: Te-Si-Ne-Fi
ISTP: Ti-Se-Ni-Fe

ESTJ not only has different judging functions but also different perceiving functions from ESTP and ISTP. Try looking at the differences between Te-Fi and Ti-Fe and the differences between Se-Ni and Si-Ne. If you find out what cognitive functions you prefer to utilize in your decision making process then it would be easier to narrow it down.

Yea I might lean more toward ESTJ (but ESTP is a possibility, I'm just not sold on the OP as Ti/Fe type).

Yup, ESTJ.