
Originally Posted by
The Great One
Okay so I know exactly who you are Cosette and I know your Mom (Pink Rasputin). I am at full liberty to type you because I have talked on the phone with your mom on several occasions. Hell, I even have chatted with you on the phone on several occasions as well. At first you seemed very ESTP to me. Your mother told me a lot about you and you had a lot of ESTP characteristics. First off, let me say that I was completely wrong. You are not ESTP at all. It appears as if you have Ne after all.
You are a very difficult one to type because you contain both ENFP and ENTP characteristics. From what I gathered from you on the phone you have a very strong enneagram 7 fixture. ExxP personalities make up the vast majority of type 7 personalities. So you are definitely a ExxP. You seem to have inherited your mother's Ne, because your mind seems to move just as fast as she. This could also be an Se function, but considering the fact that you care about this system at all: that would make me think that you are more of a dominant Ne user, as Se users don't usually care about mbti and enneagram. Another question that you could ask yourself to determine whether you have Se or Ne is this: Ne users typically have a poor sense of their outer surroundings, day dream a lot about random things, look for the hidden meaning in things, enjoy metaphor and analogies, and are constantly dreaming about the future. Se users on the other hand, rarely dream about imaginary ideas and have a crystal clear awareness of their outer surroundings (they know what is going on around them 24/7), rarely think of the future and their minds are stuck in the present, speak in concrete language, and are not generally interested in abstract ideas. Again, I'm pretty sure that you use Ne.
Now the real question in my mind is whether you are an ENFP or ENTP? Now from what I just saw on the video, you acted a lot more ENFP than ENTP. However, there are some characteristics that I have observed in you that would lead me to believe that you are more ENTP than ENFP. For example, your mother used to tell me that you used to bully other children in your school quite frequently. This is much more of an ENTP trait than an ENFP one. Also, your mother tells me that you are pretty fearless and rarely back down from confrontation. This is also not an ENFP trait, as most ENFP's are quite docile. In fact, these two traits made me think that you were an ESTP in the beginning, but now leads me more along the lines of ENTP.
Now one must also take into consideration that I know that your father is quite the aggressive person. This could be a nature vs. nurture thing going on, because my mother also grew up with an aggressive father. My mother is an ENFP as well, and her dad was an ESTJ and was an enneagram 8 sargeant major in the army. Now because my mother grew up being around such an aggressive man, she became very aggressive as a child. In fact, my mother was also a schoolyard bully and she also used to beat up other kids. But, she later mellowed out over the years. This behavior that my mom exhibited was a product of her environment.
The next thing that I will add is that you seem to have the classic ENTP prankster personality. In fact, when I used to chat with your mom on the phone, because I was bored last year, I guess that you thought I was trying to date her or something (I wasn't I just like chatting with her), but you pranking kept calling her a "cougar" over the phone. This is more of an ENTP trait to be more of prankster.
I should also add that the fact that you are an actress and enjoy acting leads me more to an ENFP typing as well. Most Fi users are all about self expression and tend to crave the spotlight much more than ENTPs, so ENFP's tend to greatly enjoy acting.
Here are some real concrete questions to help you to determine whether you are ENFP or ENTP...
1. Is it easy for you to be able to feel what others are feeling? Also, when you are watching a horror movie, or a drama, and a special character does do you become emotionally involved in the film? Most Fi users like myself often do, and Ti users usually don't. Perfect example: I like to watch horror movies often with my ENTP buddy. During the movies, I will often be like, "OMG poor woman, that is so awful! How can they hurt her like that! What a sick bastard!". Things like that happen, you can feel what others feel easily with Fi, but you can't with Ti.
2. What are your moral and value systems like? Fi morals are very black and white, and Fi users will have very clear guidelines as to whether something is moral or not and will usually stand by this system. Ti users tend to have morals in "shades of grey. Ti users have some morals that are black and white too, but some morals are shades of grey. What I mean by this, is that they will say things like, well it would no longer be deemed immoral to do "so and so" certain act under certain conditions. Fi morals are not like this.
3. How emotional are you? When under stress, Fi users will have a need to express their emotions by talking to someone about their problems with other people. ENTP's on the other hand, will just go into seclusion, get very philosophical and logically reason out their problems.
4. What are you like when working on problems? Ti users will often automatically find the easiest way to do something and stick with that, and if you do something in a more complicated manner than it needs to be done, it will drive them crazy.
Think about this Cosette and get back to me.
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