So I'm fairly experienced with MBTI personality typing, but new to this particular forum. I've taken plenty of tests and I usually test as an INTJ, with fairly balanced N/S and T/F functions.
I started poking around here and found a post by someone who was undecided on the same issue, and the commenters basically agreed that she was an INFJ. Some of the descriptions that they posted sounded a whole lot like me, so that got me thinking...have I really got my type right?
I really value logic in making decisions, and I've made several major life decisions on a purely rational basis, discounting how I actually felt about them in the interest of "making sense." Almost everything that I decide, whether it's which path to take to class or the best way to complete a project, is done with an eye towards efficiency and rationality. However, I am very sensitive to other people's moods and feelings, and I do care whether what I say offends them, because that makes future interactions difficult. I suspect that I'm an INTJ with a highly developed feeling side because my dad was verbally and emotionally abusive when I was growing up, and I had to learn how to read his emotions pretty quickly.
Anyone have any ideas, or even questions I could ask myself to probe more deeply?