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This is a discussion on Boss's Narcissistic Inferno- Abandon all hope all ye who enter! within the What's my Enneagram type? forums, part of the Enneagram Personality Theory Forum category; Originally Posted by JuliaRhys What exactly makes 1w2 impossible? Why would you consider 1? Just curious :)...
8w7 3w4 7w8 sx/sp :\ for sure...I was thinking 3 at first, but you are too fucking reactive to be a core 3. It has to be 8w7. Also ENTJ.
There is also a lot of 7 and 3 throughout the entire post...it just oozes 378.
You guys are hilarious. LOFLMAO @Attila the Hun (ok..no member with that username..good)
Could someone talk about why they lean 3w4 over 3w2?
Also, @JuliaRhys, I seriously considered 1w2 for a long time. Remember something Naranjo said.. 1= hypersocial; 8- anti social. Amorality doesn't quite line up with 1, but I am definitely very interested in hearing your thoughts since I've paid a lot of attention to this in the past.
Guys, I am not an 8w7. I am not very aggressive at all. I don't consciously push boundaries. I don't challenge people unless I can get something from it. I am just too peaceful, patient and slow-moving to be an 8w7. Also, I am inwardly sensitive. I just don't let it show I know 8w7s, and they're not affected in the same way that I can be affected...when caught in an unguarded moment or whatever it's called.
Btw, nobody thinks I am an INFJ? :P
Do you think I am too fuckin reactive because I want to eat hearts and kill people sometimes?
LOL rrrrightNot an 8w7 at all! ohno no no!
I feel too calm and sort of you know..slow moving and relaxed to be a triple id type.
you are calm because you've grown up in violent, turbulent, war ridden times, lost your father and all around just been through some crazy shit. when you take someone who has experienced that and put them in a normal life, of course they're going to be more calm that the average person who freaks out because their room is a mess. you are calm because you are seek out intensity and challenges, and thus, your comfort zone is VERY broad, so by default you are relaxed and chill when you aren't fighting your next challenge.
3w4 mostly just from the way you expressed yourself here. You don't mind your negative side and display it proudly. There is a lot of 7-ish gluttony (not in the literal sense), avoidance of deprivation and also a ton of 3 ish fear of faliure, need for achievement, etc etc moar 3-ish qualities.
I'd say that 3-7-8 is spot on for you. I haven't seen the real you, I don't know you, that is why the best guess was 8w7 core. It does seem so from the post itself. I can be wrong, but I'm not wrong about 378 or Sx/Sp, neither is SOM :).
@Boss , I am not completely done reading, but I feel the urge to chime in. You are definitely a 3. Being self-confident and assertive is not just a 8w7 thing. In fact, I'm pretty sure your gut fix is 8w9 instead. Your head fix is last for sure, and I'm fairly confident it's 7w8 (if not, 7 for sure). I would have to finish/re-read/reflect on the survey to conclude 3w2 or 3w4. While 3w4 is tempting, your desire to help the less privileged has me thinking w2. I considered 1w2 as the gut fix at first, I really did, but your 8 tendencies won over.
Also girl, please consider ENTJ? Pretty please? You might be an introverted extrovert like myself. Your ambitions from this post, were very much geared externally.
Edit: I forgot to mention, your questionnaire was a beautiful trip to read. It's very inspirational and I'll have to let it sink in. You are truly someone of character.
maybe not toward other people, but you are clearly a very aggressive person internallyGuys, I am not an 8w7. I am not very aggressive at all.
because you're too busy trying to attain power, like an 8.I don't consciously push boundaries. I don't challenge people unless I can get something from it.
you're also extremely emotionally mature, experienced and put together for your age. were you more aggressive as a child?I am just too peaceful, patient and slow-moving to be an 8w7. Also, I am inwardly sensitive. I just don't let it show I know 8w7s, and they're not affected in the same way that I can be affected...when caught in an unguarded moment or whatever it's called.
lolBtw, nobody thinks I am an INFJ? :P
@Swordsman of Mana
I was aggressive as a child, yes. I wasn't out of control or crazy. But, I was aggressive and very domineering. As young as age 3/4, I was bossing kids around when they came to my house to play. I'd supervise them, and after a point, I'd ask them to leave. Before they left, I made sure they put everything back in place...including some of my stuff that had been moved around long before they came in lofl.
Just to clarify, when I speak of failure and shame...I am talking about the kind of failure that pretty much makes you lose nearly everything you've worked for. It's no slimey lil..I have a bad grade..level failure. It's failure on a grand scale that shook my very fuckin foundations. And yes, it made me feel numb. I don't care for small setbacks. I don't mind losing small battles, in the interest of winning the war.
I'll address the rest of your points later. :)