Having 8 wing does it sometimes contradict you? Type 9 are peaceful, passive, gentle. With the type 8 you become assertive and aggressive. Over the years I think I've been like this. I was always scared what my anger could do to people or myself. I've punched a glass window when I was 14 I was annoyed at the way I was being treated by one of my siblings. I'm really lucky that I didn't get any cuts or scratches inside of myself. I've always had this aggressiveness that can be scary to others. Hurting other people and not caring about it. But I can also be quiet, gentle and people will assume I wouldn't cause any harm. This type seems to be the total opposite. Is it better to learn how to be assertive? I'm always scared of hurting others if pushed to far and hurting myself be allowing people to walk over me.