I've been attracted to a few E9s, (9w1s, INFXs)....
And I generally like them and find them intriguing, mysterious, peaceful, etc.
I'm curious as to how you see 8s and 9s getting along in a relationship, experiences you've had, etc.
The only thing that really bothers me is when they disappear for days at a time and just want to avoid things or negative feelings... or need to take time to "let their emotions run out". I'm not sure if that kind of indirectness is something I can deal with in a serious relationship. I wonder if that ever changes with E9s,when you have more time /experience / security with someone, or not.