I was crappy to a 9w1 long ago. I would like to apologize for being a self-absorbed piece o' four; I haven't talked to him in ages, basically because he cut me off. If I were to apologize via email, would he appreciate it, or would he rather I never bring it up again and maybe if I see him years from now I could apologize. It's crappy because I miss him but I also don't think he wants anything to do with me. Would an apology be ignored, or worse, viewed as stalking? I want to be big here and do what's best for him, not what's best for me.
Obviously you don't know the real answer here because you aren't him, but how would you as a nine feel about this? Any insight is appreciated-