[joyandblues]

6 men:



What qualities (personality-wise) in a woman attract you the most?

Are emotional, expressive women a turn on or off?

[HandiAce]

Caring is one of the most attractive qualities in my opinion. I also value people who are sincere.

[joyandblues]

Nice, thanks.

[EmotionallyTonedGeometry]

There's a weird balance that needs to be held for me to really get into a woman. There needs to be a compassionate and nurturing side, while at the same time leaving me my space. I'm not sure how this is even possible, but my wife seems to do it just fine.

I also need to admire them, probably for some characteristic that I lack. The infinite nurturing capacity of my wife is such a trait. I don't know how she does it and it seems magical to me. Perhaps this has something to do with my extroverted feeling shadow?

Emotionally expressive women are just fine, but again, there's a line. If I'm feeling smothered, like by an ESFJ, emotional expression is like a psychological/emotional kick to the groin. When an emotion is expressed in a non-egotistical, non-obnoxious sort of way, I find it quite beautiful. I find that I would rather approach the emotion on my own terms rather than have it crammed down my throat.

[HandiAce]

ETG that would probably sound right for me as well. Aren't you also Sx/Sp stacking variant? That might play a role in having the balance between time to yourself and time to express your deep feelings towards your partner.

Don't know if it's just an INTP thing or not, but that sappy romantic stuff, if done to me, frightens me!

Perhaps I'm just not used to touching women or people in general.