What 2 enneagram types are you the MOST attracted to?

**Mooncutter** · 12-20-2011 06:58 AM

What 2 enneagram pure types are you the MOST attracted to?

For me it's 8's + 1's

**Starflakes** · 12-20-2011 12:39 PM

So far, 6's and 7's!

8's and 1's for you? Really? I can understand being attracted to 1's, but 8's? I think the beauty of 8's is one I'd much rather admire from afar.....very afar.

**Mooncutter** · 12-20-2011 02:42 PM

Originally Posted by Sad Robot

So far, 6's and 7's!

8's and 1's for you? Really? I can understand being attracted to 1's, but 8's? I think the beauty of 8's is one I'd much rather admire from afar.....very afar.

Well I'm a man. Female 8's are dangerous really, and tend to have higher empathy because they are females. A weak point for the otherwise somewhat brutal 8 =)

**Humaning** · 12-20-2011 06:52 PM

2, 7 and 9
Optimism is the sexiest thing.

**Starflakes** · 12-20-2011 11:20 PM

Originally Posted by Mooncutter

Well I'm a man. Female 8's are dangerous really, and tend to have higher empathy because they are females. A weak point for the otherwise somewhat brutal 8 =)

Makes sense.

**ImminentThunder** · 12-21-2011 10:14 AM

2s and other 4s, mostly.

7s are a close third.

**Starflakes** · 12-22-2011 07:42 PM

You know, I've never even considered other 4's. I wonder what it would be like to be in a relationship with another 4.

**Mooncutter** · 12-25-2011 04:23 AM

Alot of people say they are attracted to their own type. But I don't know. As far as relationships I've NEVER seen a serious relationship between two individuals of same type. So far it's never. Usually people don't have neither primary or secondary type in common, like wings included and such. I've seen 1 serious relationship when one persons wing was anothers primary type. Man 8w9, woman 9w1. Other than that none.