Just out of curiousity. Are all 4's as crazy (in the bad way) as the enneagram descriptions all seem to describe them; i.e. being horribly emotionally volatile and never being satisfied with their relationships/identity/life? Please understand that this is coming from someone who is admittedly quite ignorant about enneagram and type 4 and would like to hear the 4s' perspectives (not as an attack on 4's). Have any 4's had geniunely satisfying long-term relationships, what were they like, and if so what (if anything) ended them?