Good thing I saved the chat, so I could look back on it for further reflection. It's rather long, so I'll PM it to you but to answer your other question, How do I differ from other INFPS?
I care more about my image -I care about how I look and most of the times feel like a walking sex symbol. , I'm not afraid to tell someone to fuck off if they piss me off(I don't avoid confrontation. I don't like it, but I don't hide from it either.) As much as I'd rather be in the house reading a book or something, I do enjoy going out to parties sometimes. But they have to be really big crazy parties with alot of people. If I'm going to go full on party mode, I need to do it right.
I crave adventure, and were it not for a slight disability, I'd want to live dangerously -maybe be a firefighter, a boxer or a navy seal. Also, when I want to be, I can be quite charming in social situations. I'm a chameleon of sorts and will find a way to get everyone to instantly like and respect me. I also like to push my limits, my boundaries -to live on the edge. I have a real lust for life.
All that being said, and in spite of all my crazy experiences(which I can share with you if you'd like to hear more) I am still a hardcore INFP. I still love books, being alone, listening to soft music, finding beauty in things, wrestling with my emotions ect. But being a 3w4 seems to give me a saucier personality.