
Originally Posted by
Le9acyMuse
Walls of text incoming.
It may be rude to insist that it's true that society has this power over us, but...it does. It's called socialization. You learn from people who were and are being raised in the same society. If you abide by norms (even just some), you have been socialized. If it's become natural to think one way and dislike another "dysfunctional," yet virtually harmless way because it's lesser in some way, you've been socialized. I'm a type 4, so it was weird for me to hear of this in the first place, too. I'm my own man, but I'm not immune - no-one is - to conformation in some regard, especially when it comes to being raised in a place with sweeping views like America. When you say "functional," are you saying it assists in doing something? It's just clothing. It's to keep you warm and/or cool. In fact, in the larger scheme of things, clothing is as useless as gold, or as television, or as war. It's man-made and man-fronted. At best, they're not always required to sustain one's life. Man just made their rules that you're following one way or another. No-one, and I mean no-one, is untouched by mainstream views, unless they've been majorly unsocialized. If you're not socialized, you probably wouldn't survive in society. You'd either get in too much trouble or you wouldn't be able to take care of yourself. Black people have trademarked the style in mainstream culture. I don't know if, when it originated in prison, it had its origins with Blacks there, but I wouldn't be overly surprised. It's just something that caught on, like any other style.
As far as aesthetics go, everyone has the liberty to express themselves (though limits are still imposed). You are free to like, dislike and protest anything, which you already know. But I think it wise to pay heed to the man (the power) behind the curtain pulling the strings. As people, we are naturally ignorant. Ignorance isn't the danger. It's when we get complacent and think that things are as they are for purely sensible reasons, and that it's pure common sense and rationality that we've chosen to commit ourselves to certain tendencies, forgetting that the same concepts have existed for millennia before our births, that we fall into a disagreeable rut. It's where you're with the 'us,' and the others are the 'them,' when we've only ever been 'we.' It's just distractions. Who cares about who's wearing what like that or this? Their attitudes are what need to be elevated, rather than their attire. It looks funny, sure, but only because we were made to feel a certain way about how to wear clothes. Rebellion ain't nothin' new. Sometimes people rebel for the right reasons, other times for the wrong. You rebel, I sure as hell rebel. If we leave it at that, we can focus on what really matters, like what 'sagging' represents, and why it's associated with what it is. For all we know it's a sign of interpersonal bankruptcy between certain peoples, despite its origins (most people probably don't know or care about it anyway). With that said, why suppress it? We should listen to our people, and we're all each other's people. If we can get that far, maybe we can do away with this fascination about who's doing something "wrong." Symbols (such as 'sagging,' unacceptance and proof of power) are rarely wrong. They're symptoms, and often warnings. When human behavior is dwelled upon, we don't see that. We're all ignorant by nature, and claim to know more than we really do. Humans will never stop having many behaviors, and we won't understand it by being disgusted with each other. But we may have the chance by paying attention to worldwide/cultural patterns, and less to ourselves individually. Because if you haven't noticed, we're all incredibly biased.
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