When did I admit this?You even admitted to people choosing their demise. If they chose it, they also, at all times, had the option of canceling it and move on. Individual freedom / responsibility.
I'm not saying that at all. What I am saying is that people often respond to societal pressures. It's not the responsibility of either sex to ensure the wellness of the other, but neither should both sexes cause illness for the other.Because, yes, they are. If you sell yourself, your values or what defines you for money, it yet again was your choice to do so. It makes your integrity questionable in the first place, if there ever was any.
If anything you appear to have repeatedly stripped women completely of individual freedom of choice and responsibility, as if it was men's responsibility that women should be well. That's inevitably more condescending than people plainly saying it's women's fault to begin with for not taking charge of their own well-being.