You even admitted to people choosing their demise. If they chose it, they also, at all times, had the option of canceling it and move on. Individual freedom / responsibility.
Movements aren't meant to compensate collective stupidity, gender unrelated one at that. For whatever reason they actually seem to contribute to exactly that, though. Ha, irony.
Here you used the same wonky argumentation:
Because, yes, they are. If you sell yourself, your values or what defines you for money, it yet again was your choice to do so. It makes your integrity questionable in the first place, if there ever was any.So, women are to blame when society tells them to place their looks above everything else, and a magazine comes along and offers them a lot of money to pose and sell their looks via that magazine?
If anything you appear to have repeatedly stripped women completely of individual freedom of choice and responsibility, as if it was men's responsibility that women should be well. That's inevitably more condescending than people plainly saying it's women's fault to begin with for not taking charge of their own well-being.