So...what do the different personality types like in bed?

jdmn

I've always wanted to do S&M or specially Dominance and Submission role games adn be the one who's in charge... but it's when I'm older.. like 25... xDD

pinkrasputin

I don't understand "games" and "fantasy". Why not drop your guards and be yourselves who want this type of balance? It is so much more erotic. It feels like you're piercing and releasing into each other's souls.

sparklygreengirl

Yeah, I agree with this. Im submissive myself and Im in a D/s relationship. Im INFP, Im pretty certain he's ENTP and he's very dominant. Its not about games or fantasy, its very real, its who we are.

If Im with the right person and as the relationship grows, I will try pretty much anything(and have) Its all about trust for me.

sparkly x

Illusion

Yes. ..I like dom/dom. ..Think Mr. and Mrs. Smith love that movie.
I have gotten annoyed with those (as of now two..) who complain when I bite/suck their neck ("It left marks for days and still hurts!! But it's OK I forgive you") or when I happen to scratch them or something. -_- I mean of course I get it and try to respect that, but still would be more comfortable with someone who didn't mind a little bit rough.
Although extreme vanilla with lots of foreplay can be quite nice too, but than I need to go into it thinking 'cuddling' and not 'we are gonna fuck'.

Otherwise with people I care about I can be quite insecure when it comes to sex, so than it can be a relief if they are very dom and don't expect me to take charge.

KateAusten

Maybe they put the mattress up against the wall! That sounds way comfier than your vertebrae banging against the wall...

Liminality

Vertebraetion...This could be the new way forward...

A spine tingling venture...

Ignus

hehe, I'll throw in my comments here too.

I usually manage to get lots of giggling and laughter in during sex, demystifying the part of the TV show or movie where the curtains go up and the lights fade to black. Just enjoying and experiencing as regular people is awesome.

One of my favorite things is when one partner messes up, I feel like it makes us both feel more human. It's hilarious and fun to giggle about too. Like farting during sex, or other non romantic erotic things that break the mood and remind us of our imperfections. I get a huge kick out of that and end up laughing so hard I can't breathe (quietly though of course).

I also like doing the teasing *wink wink nudge nudge* stuff, saying "rrwaaaawrrr *wink*" and all that.
For me, sex is all about fun and exploration. I love experimenting and figuring out what turns my girl on, and then applying that pressure with entertaining results. When that gets overstimulated or old, I go back to exploring some more and just try to find the awesome feedback I'm looking for.

openedskittles

It seems this thread is drawing a lot more people of certain types than of others.

thehigher

yep. tends to happen. take a look at this forum... it mostly drags in N's. If you bring up a topic based on sex.... NF's will probably jump on it.

pinkrasputin

In more ways than one.