I know I'm generalizing.....but I hate gay people. :)

Originally Posted by Kevinaswell

But in gay land, it's incredibly common to claim a desire for a "mutual, loving relationship" but then have the first thing asked of you during the 'get to know you process' be along the lines of "So, are you a top or bottom?"

Does that seriously go on? Why would someone be so crude on a date?

This thread has been a real eye opener for me. Id always thought that being gay meant that in relationships you would in general be dealing with purer intentions and everything would be more honest?

Originally Posted by Moon Pix

Does that seriously go on? Why would someone be so crude on a date?

This thread has been a real eye opener for me. Id always thought that being gay meant that in relationships you would in general be dealing with purer intentions and everything would be more honest?

I think now would be a good time to mention that it's called homosexuality for a reason.

As honest and pure as I'd love a relationship to be with another man, there's still the fact that you're 1.) in a relationship with another man, essentially doubling the desire for sex that's expected and 2.) immediately expected to establish the traditional relationship model that Western thought is permeated with, which is almost always divided up by how often a person assumes a particular sexual role.

So of course there's going to be a degree of forwardness.

Of course, the way I see it, there are perks -- never having to worry about what your SO will say when you want to have the guys over for beer and a football game, never having to worry about being misunderstood over things that comes naturally to us men, never having to step out of your comfort zone in order to accommodate someone of the opposite sex, such as buying feminine products or any such thing.

Those reasons right there break about even in regards to making it worth taking it up the ass lol