I'm currently a single mum and finding it so hard to meet anyone new.
My son's father I think" was the complete opposite of me, an ESFP and I met him when I used to go raving.
You might be thinking, "why is an INTJ raving". lol
Well... I feel through music. I love music, dancing and drinking and I went through a stage of partying all the time.
I've now been single for a year and It made me wonder.
Where on earth does an INTJ single mum meet someone new, someone like themselves?
I'm quite adventurous and can be outgoing if I have the energy, but this tends to attract the opposites, because they think im always outgoing.
I'm not needy, I'm very much a loner and being with just anyone doesnt interest me, too be honest it makes me cringe. I hate being touched by people who I dont want to be touched by. So seeing people and dating people, just for fun, really isnt fun for me.
So ... what are your suggestions?
I have few friends, but they arent really on my level, so when they introduce me to their mates and guy friends. I'm never interested.