If you could go back and have your "first time" and/or "first kiss" again...

**BehindSmile** · 08-14-2009, 08:59 AM

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Originally Posted by So Long So Long

Well, if I tell you... I'm most likely going to get the whole, 'Oh, well you're still young! You'll get your first kiss eventually! blahblahblahblah' stuff and while that may be true, I don't really care about kissing and stuff like that. I mean, it'd be nice, sure, but I'm more than fine just being by myself. The whole High School sweethearts thing doesn't appeal to me in the least bit. I doubt I'll be kissed until I'm well on into university or grad school, even and I'm perfectly fine with that.

I think I might've come off harsh... Sorry if I did. I just kind of hate it when people tell me that. Haha. And I hate telling people how old I am because then I feel as though they don't take me very seriously, but since you asked I'm fifteen-years old.

I didn't get my first kiss until 16...you're okay.

**snail** · 08-14-2009, 09:30 AM

I got my first kiss just before my sixteenth birthday, but my current boyfriend didn't get his until he was twenty. :) I feel so honored to be someone's first.
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**HollyGolightly** · 08-14-2009, 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by SummoningDark

Well...I would, somehow, see to it that this time I weren't a victim of sexual abuse.

I'm so sorry to hear that you had to go through that.
That's why I'm making sure that my first time will be right and that I will feel safe because I was a victim of sexual abuse as a kid so it's important that I don't feel afraid of whoever I lose my virginity to.

**thehigher** · 08-14-2009, 11:41 AM

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Originally Posted by HollyGolightly

What would you change and why?
Or do you believe stuff happens for a reason so even if you could change it you wouldn't?

Nothing. It was perfect :)

**Lightning** · 08-14-2009, 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by So Long So Long

Well, if I tell you... I'm most likely going to get the whole, 'Oh, well you're still young! You'll get your first kiss eventually! blahblahblahblah' stuff and while that may be true, I don't really care about kissing and stuff like that. I mean, it'd be nice, sure, but I'm more than fine just being by myself. The whole High School sweethearts thing doesn't appeal to me in the least bit. I doubt I'll be kissed until I'm well on into university or grad school, even and I'm perfectly fine with that.

I think I might've come off harsh... Sorry if I did. I just kind of hate it when people tell me that. Haha. And I hate telling people how old I am because then I feel as though they don't take me very seriously, but since you asked I'm fifteen-years old.

Don't worry, so long. I didn't have my first kiss until just before I turned 17. And who says you have to be high school sweethearts? High school flings are where it's at. You can cover a lot of ground in a short amount of time

TotalPigeon · 08-14-2009, 03:25 PM

Just turned 17 for my first kiss, and it was pretty much everything I'd been hoping for. It was also nice to hear that my partner was somewhat surprised by how good I was at it, considering it was a first. I might have done it somewhere else in the house other than the laundry room, mind. I'll have the mental image of that room stuck in my head for the rest of my life...

As for my first time, well, I've been holding out for the right place and person. If I'm going to have to remember it for the rest of my life, sleeping with some stranger in a toilet at a house party would be a complete disaster. I have been finding it difficult to fall for anyone recently though, which is making this awkward.

**BehindSmile** · 08-14-2009, 10:37 PM

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Originally Posted by snail

I got my first kiss just before my sixteenth birthday, but my current boyfriend didn't get his until he was twenty. :) I feel so honored to be someone's first.
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My ex didn't get his until 21...I felt honored to give him his!

**Mercurius** · 08-15-2009, 02:50 AM

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Originally Posted by HollyGolightly

What would you change and why?
Or do you believe stuff happens for a reason so even if you could change it you wouldn't?

I wouldn't change a thing because I like it the way it was. Why dislike it? The fact that it happened is good already. In case of details; Improvement happens with trial and error.