I have tried to build something more with one of my former female friends. And this was a total disaster. Emotionally attached couldn't end what was destined to fall. I have an automatice response since then to anything that could be possible a friendship with a female - run asap :)
Proved on few another occasions that always ther is something touchy-feely lurking. Fortunetly only one massive hell of drama :), but still hardwired into the brain.
I've seen some kind of things that friendship has to be first and so on, but personally think of it as god damned bullshit. Any thoughts?