One night stands

As it so happens, I got thinking about ONS.

Personally I think that the sex is usually bad-to-average, but not good. I enjoy them most because of the novelty factor - finding out about how a new person looks like and acts in that situation. After quite some of them I have started feeling emotionally drained, though, and nowadays want to connect with the other person emotionally as well as physically. That way, the passion can be much deeper and more fulfilling. Still, each ONS represents a story and is, in a way, an adventure.

What do you think about ONS? Have you had many of them? Do you find them good, bad or just feel indifferent about them?

never had one. but im pretty sure i could break down the person's type and act like their anima/animus for the few minutes i have with them. it turns me on when the other is turned on :).

If all both parties are looking for is sex, then there really isnt a problem. If one of the parties is looking for something more than that then yeah, it could become an issue. But you are smart enough to know all this

Last year, I had an accidental one night stand when I started to cry after having sex on the first date. It made the girl I was with feel uncomfortable, so she left and didn't call me again.

Why did you get upset as a result of getting sex on the first date?

I Dont know about crying but I bet you know how bad it feels right after you orgasm and realise this isnt the person you want to be with (for guys atleast). Guess the Physical factors just take you over on a ONS

Gross. I am not happy with my past encounters. When I think of them I feel so stupid, & embarrassed.

Lets just say that one night stands for me are for street creds. jkjk

Na, only happened to me once when I was drunk at a party. I regret it since it reached my mom. I was underage back than. yikes!

I've never had a ONS.

Emotional connection is hugely important for me. But I know other people don't need the same emotional element that I crave.

I'm kinda curious about what it's like to be able to enjoy the physical without the emotional, and move on the next day. I just know it's something I would not get through completely unscathed!

I have never had a one night stand,I don't think I would either,it wouldn't be very meaningful to me