My last ex

So my last girlfriend... This is indeed a story. I don't really guess I need advice about it since it's already a done deal but I thought that I would entertain the few of you that wanted to hear about it. I've known this girl for a total of two years prior to us dating, officially dated her last October up until last month, it was a total of six months. I was completely head over heels for this girl.

She had a previous boyfriend that she had dated before me off and on for the past four years give or take. Turns out he was a big douche bag and left her. When I started to date this girl I knew that he would be my biggest competition. Turns out I was right. Five months into our relationship, the ex contacted my girl. Since that time, it was a facebook message to cure your curiosity, she was completely different.

It took me a conversation of two full hours to finally get her to tell me that she wasn't happy in our relationship. She wanted things that she couldn't have and the things that she did have she didn't want.

A rough translation was that she was still in love with her ex and not myself. This pretty much sucked for me.
I lost my virginity to this girl in late January too, which makes this situation even worse for me. I am a social conservative Christian and I don't believe that sex before marriage should occur, but it happened so there isn't anything that I can do about it.

I saw her for the first time last Thursday, which was two and a half weeks since we broke up. The short conversation that we had, she was a complete prick to me. She was angry at me and wanted to blame the entire break up on me. I did in fact end the relationship, I don't believe I had much of a choice. You kinda get that way when the woman that you love tells you to your fact that she is in love with someone else from her past.

Could I get her back? Most likely, should I? Probably not. After the short time that we have already been apart I have managed to get the numbers of two other girls and both of which aren't like my now ex. My now ex, was very self centered. She told me once that at the end of the day she would do what she wanted to do, no matter what. We had had a huge fight before we broke up because I told her I didn't like her to go out drinking and dancing in night clubs with strangers while she dated me. I don't really agree with those activities and it really bothered me. That situation is not only dangerous but it's stupid when every guy in that type of environment is after one thing. I asked her to stop and her response to me was that she didn't care what I thought that she was going to do what she wanted to do.

This may be a soap box, I don't care lol. She wasn't a completely horrible girlfriend. In fact, she was one of the best I have ever had. The club thing I got over. She believed that it was a trust issue, perhaps it was but if something makes your partner that uncomfortable, you stop. She used to go out of her way to see me, to cook for me, to spend time with me.

I didn't see it coming when she told me that she wanted her last ex back. Thankfully, I had placed a part of myself in reserve just in case we had broke up. I gave her just about everything that i had. Too much in fact, Be weary of this type of a relationship.

Thanks for the story, seems you handled the situation very smoothly. The whole going to clubs thing, seems like an example of how your personalities didn't fit together I guess. Yet I don't understand the thing about helding a part of yourself on reserve. If you wern't compleatly there for her then it must have been predictible that she wouldn't be compleatly there for you, at least not in the long run.