Why are men more interested in women than women are in men?

Question for women

1 How many times do you think about men?

2. What do you desire the most in your life Material things or a Man?



To me in reality i don't get signals that women really desire us the same way we desire them.

Men what are your thoughts?

I'm not sure i understand the questions.

By what degree are men interested in women?

Meh, I had a little theory about this from an evolutionary stand-point.

The basic principle is that men can make loads of women pregnant, whilst women can only be pregnant with one guy at a time (so to speak). Therefore, only the women need to worry about which genes they need to "keep alive" and which ones to diss. Men are basically just "spreading their seed" to get as many offspring as possible and if women let the guy go "through" their filters, she will accept it and carry on his genes.

So, women have kind of a "filter" to sort out and be more careful about which guys they pick (and just dont f*ck around with anybody) whilst men do the opposite and will have sex with anything with a hole, or something...

Anyways, that's the very short, very basic "rundown" of my little theory, just my thoughts....

Not all men, obviously.

Originally Posted by Versatile Leader

Question for women

1 How many times do you think about men?

2. What do you desire the most in your life Material things or a Man?



To me in reality i don't get signals that women really desire us the same way we desire them.

Men what are your thoughts?

1.- Well If your saying men in general or a specific man? Men in general really never
but a specific male person then everyday.

2.- Neither. I desire things that arn't so tangible to get.

I try not to desire anything, it only leads to disappointment when i don't get whatever it is i desire.

I have a feeling this may have more to do with an individual...interesting perspective though. You usually see the opposite suggested - that women spend their time thinking about & discussing relationships much more than men do. Unless we're talking about sex, and then it's suggested men are more focused on those thoughts.

1 How many times do you think about men?
I don't keep count....I daydream frequently about men concerning both relationships & sex, but it's usually someone specific. I also think about men in more casual ways, as I do with anyone, regardless of gender.

2. What do you desire the most in your life Material things or a Man?
Neither....I'll copy Jolene & say that my desires are rather "intangible", as I think that phrases it nicely.
If I had to choose though, I'd take a satisfying relationship with a man over many material comforts.

I scribble his name on my trapper keeper, or my name, but with his last name. Kekekeke. And sometimes I write 2getha 4eva.

I think "I love you! But I love me more." pretty much sums it up for me

What I wonder is... not how often men/women think of men/women, but to what level...

I dunno, it just seems the general impression I get is that guys think "she's hot/funny/sexy/I just like her" but with me and perhaps some other females I know it goes deeper than that, like "What's this person about? What kind of babies will we have? What kind of house will we live in? What would our wedding be like?" and not only do I personally think of that stuff but I sometimes contrive answers for those questions too...so it's like I think of a whole life involving this person of interest.

And it isn't that those things must meet certain expectations, exactly, it's just something that I consider....