This is a discussion on The Personality Cafe No-Fap September 2012 Challenge within the Sex and Relationships forums, part of the Topics of Interest category; Originally Posted by airotciV I actually feel like I'm not helping with that video but it's just too hilarious to ...
I'm not putting some conformist bullshit in my sig.
However, I'm on day 5. Therefore, I'm not currently in the mood to be all "yay let's celebrate and have a good fucking time."
So don't talk to me. But i'll post how it's going in this thread, since it is a good idea.
@Hunny Bunny that goes for you too since you posted this on my visitor's wall.
Day 6.... Actually, its getting easier. A few moments of "I have a few min...I could...", but I can squash that pretty easy.
I think it will be easier as time goes on....and, honestly, I am getting more shit done around the house. I've missed a lot of good threads here, but its because I've been working a lot more, and not sitting at the computer (Where I usually fap). I was very skeptical about the benefits of giving up fapping....but I really think its turning into a good thing.
I'm not nearly as horny as I thought I would be either. I imagined myself dry humping everything within reach, and following women around target, sweating profusely, just waiting for my opportunity to pounce on them like a leopard pounces on a deer..... I haven't been like that at all. No difference really in how I interact with women.
Might be cheesy to some of you... but I really think this is a good thing for mental/sexual health.
Starting yesterday I started noticing girls a LOT more than I have been previously, specifically the girls with long, flexible legs and a real tight caboose. Started thinking about those legs being wrapped around me, but I'm committed to someone already and only she will be able to satisfy these urges, and I'm noticing her curves, and ohh they are in ALL the right places. It's real hard not to beg her, but she wants to take it slow so i'll abide by that, and I don't really want to demean myself like that. It's going to be a LONG time until tomorrow night when I have some time with her.
OMG! This is so awesome. I once went 8 months without kissing, sex, masturbation, or any form of sexual contact. I also didn't drink, smoke, or take any kind of mind-altering substance that wasn't perscribed by a doctor.... coffee being the one exception.
I've never been more creative in my life than I was during that period of time. I was at art school at the time, and they couldn't give more than 30 credits for a body of work at the end of the semester, but the teachers on the "panel" attested that I had enough work for 90 credits, and they asked whether I was okay, whether I was sleeping, whether they should call my parents; because I produced suchhhh an extensive body of creative work (self-made music videos where I recorded all the tracks, entire books of art where I made the book itself and all the work inside, cd booklets, websites, additional videos... so much stuff they couldn't look at all of it)!!
It was like my mind was having an orgasm for the whole 8 months.