My boyfriend, whom I just moved in with, seems to require next to no personal space at all. He insists on spending ALL our free time together, I can't even take a walk by myself without 20 questions when I'm back, and getting butthurt. I mean, literally 24/7, he NEEDS to be together. I'm lucky to use the toilet without him waiting for me outside.
Not only that, he's physically clingy. He literally HAS to hold me/cuddle every second, even if it's sweltering hot out or if I'm carrying a bunch of shit, which is impractical.
We recently had a fight because I wanted to go somewhere without him, I brought up my need for personal space here and there, and he threw a fit and called me uncaring/aloof.
And even while I'm at work, if I don't text him back within a few hours, he panics.
We also sleep in the same bed, of course, but he literally insists on spooning ALL NIGHT LONG. It drives me nuts, as I feel smothered and sweaty. (He sleeps like a rock, and notices if I try to squirm out his grip and whimpers until I cuddle him again.
And he insists on taking ALL showers together.
Is this normal for couples who first move in together? It's only been 2 weeks. Will he chill out as time goes by? Or would you consider him clingy?