the break up

I want to know the best ways to move on from a relationship.

Me and my one broke up, well she broke up with me. Why? Her parents told her she needs to be 100% into her grades for college and she can only stay at school, dorm or go out for groceries or equestrian team or they will make her transfer from the college she is at to one in TN. Well she cut me out of her life completely removed me from facebook, myspace and didnt even give me the chance to be friends. So im guessing she didn't love me as much as she said she did.

So any advise on how to move on. I dont have a license atm so i cant drive no where and i dont have many friends to hang with so ideas?

Originally Posted by daniel89

I want to know the best ways to move on from a relationship.

Me and my one broke up, well she broke up with me. Why? Her parents told her she needs to be 100% into her grades for college and she can only stay at school, dorm or go out for groceries or equestrian team or they will make her transfer from the college she is at to one in TN. Well she cut me out of her life completely removed me from facebook, myspace and didnt even give me the chance to be friends. So im guessing she didn't love me as much as she said she did.

So any advise on how to move on. I dont have a license atm so i cant drive no where and i dont have many friends to hang with so ideas?

Do what I am doing.. CRY and then cry some more... and when you are done.. cry some more.. eventually you will feel good again and move on..

Sorry, crappy advice.. but it's the only advice..

I am sorry . I know this stuff hurts..

I told you in your previous post that she was not in the relationship for love; you should have gotten rid of her first. But, this is just another life experience for you here.

If you want to be friends with the girl, then perhaps it could happen someday; however, I would NOT suggest constantly contacting her, asking for reconciliation and/or friendship. Why? Because this will most likely cause her to dislike you even more - and it will NOT help you move on any quicker.

Personally, I was never one to grieve very long over a failed relationship at all. I fell in quickly, but I also fell out quickly; so getting over them was no problem for me. When I did feel the need to try and get over it, however, I would get out and be around people. I would also drive, as driving is very relaxing for me. However, seeing as how you have stated you can't do either of these very well, maybe you could distract yourself by talking to people online (here on PC, for example).

The way I view things: If it fails, there's a reason; no need in wallowing in self-pity just because a relationship didn't work. If it's meant to work, it will in the end. Just go with the flow of life and see where you end up.

Anyways - Whatever you do, don't go back looking at old pictures of you two; don't go trying to view her Myspace/Facebook; don't go back reading old letters the two of you wrote each other. These things will only make it more difficult to move on.

If you'd like somebody to talk to, feel free to message me anytime.

I would really appreciate if we could talk would you be willing to text?

Dude, putting your cellphone number in a forum is not the wisest choice.
Use the Private Messaging system if you really need to share that sort of thing with somebody.

I read your other thread earlier, and chose not to post because others had said what I thought was the case.

Your girl's friends and family have a vision of what her life and future is going to look like, and you weren't in it. Maybe in a few years she'll be free to make her own choices. For now, all you can do is look after yourself.

Get some distance, try to forget about her. There are too many obstacles in between you. Start planning your own future, and other girls will show up along the way.

Well I think i'm gonna hang out with a friend later on today or tomorrow and have some rebound sex to get my mind of things i cant even sleep now cause so much is going through my mind.

Originally Posted by daniel89

I want to know the best ways to move on from a relationship.

Me and my one broke up, well she broke up with me. Why? Her parents told her she needs to be 100% into her grades for college and she can only stay at school, dorm or go out for groceries or equestrian team or they will make her transfer from the college she is at to one in TN. Well she cut me out of her life completely removed me from facebook, myspace and didnt even give me the chance to be friends. So im guessing she didn't love me as much as she said she did.

So any advise on how to move on. I dont have a license atm so i cant drive no where and i dont have many friends to hang with so ideas?

It sounds like she really cares about that school. Given the circumstances it seems you need to let go the idea of pursuing a love relationship with her at this point. This must be hard for you but remember she obviously has that school as a priority now. Hold yourself together and pursue other worthwile encounters, life's not ended.

Originally Posted by daniel89

Well I think i'm gonna hang out with a friend later on today or tomorrow and have some rebound sex to get my mind of things i cant even sleep now cause so much is going through my mind.

read what you wrote again and then ask yourself why her friends and family want to keep her away from you...... food for thought.......