Ok, so this has always been a consistent struggle in my relationships and I wonder if it is just me or if other NF types have dealt with this -- I HATE it when people don't call me or text me back, especially if its a closer friend or I'm in a relationship with that person. I've had friends or guys that I was seeing that I'd call sometime in the afternoon and then when the evening came around and they've never called me back I become upset and anxious. One of the big struggles with my last ex was that I'd call him early in the evening to chat, but then he'd fall asleep all the time without calling me or bothering to send a text to say "hey I'm too tired to chat, so goodnight" or whatever. He always thought I was overreacting and just being "unstable"... as have other people have.
However, I usually feel like that during this moments (many times, but not always) that the person is just really wanting to pull away from me.. like my last ex for instance. He never seemed to want to talk to me during the week and I really felt like it was a change in his feelings for me, thought he wouldn't admit to it until the day he'd dump me when he'd say something like "I don't want to come see you because it feels like a chore".
Sorry got a bit off topic and gave more info than I needed to... but do you have a problem with people not calling you back? I can understand being busy and all, but after so many hours of the day or days its like... ok, come on.