So, I've seen a couple mentions of the INFJ door-slam (sounds so ominous, doesn't it?). But while I'm not INFJ, I can relate to the door-slamming method and have done it once in my life. I eventually let them back in partially, but it will never be the same and I will never let them back in like that again. The only reason I let him back at all is because we'd known each other so long and our families are too intertwined.
I wonder if this is not just an INFJ method, but maybe an INF method or even IF method. I think part of the reason I eventually door-slammed was because I was unable to effectively communicate what I needed/wanted in a way he understood. (We've two types that are pretty different). Eventually all the problems built up and I emotionally freaked.
Honestly, I don't think he really had any idea of what actually happened, which just goes to show how ineffective our communication is.
I was wondering what other types have door-slammed and why. Maybe we can figure out what about us makes door-slamming occur.