I was working today with my best friend and my mom while we were cleaning some stuff out of my church. I consider my friend to be an ESTJ and my mom an ISFJ. I am an INFJ and I think this caused us some problems. I read that SJs tend to be diligent and hardworking whereas NFs tend to be less concerned of day-to-day living and more toward the future. It was interesting that my friend and my mom were extremely interested with the job at hand while I wasn't. We were pretty much organizing boxes of craft supplies by taking the supplies out of a big box and putting them into smaller boxes. I grew frustrated as I thought there was no use in moving the craft supplies from one box to another. However, my friend and mom grew increasingly frustrated with me because of my lack of interest and they could not understand why I wouldn't take part in trying to "organize" the supplies. My friend and mom have also caused me a hard time as I have a hard time getting motivated to do household chores such as mowing the lawn, picking up, etc. In my mind, I view these chores as useless because the grass will just grow back in a few days and the house will inevitably grow messier over time. I am very interested with abstract things such as foreign language, music, and personality typology (who would've guessed?) and these hobbies confuse my friend as he cannot figure out why somebody would interest themselves with what he calls "useless" things (Although he is interested in music; we just have totally different tastes). Sometimes it's hard because my mom and my friend can "gang up" on me because of how similar their beliefs are.
So, do you concur with this? Have you experienced something like this too?
Thanks for your responses!