Its good you know that you have recognized the need for a change and considering taking on the next leg of your ambitions. Haha, a nice cold beer in the sun is nicely welcomed. I live by the beach and there is some very nice bars/pubs looking out to sea, in fact as the weather is no nice right now, that maybe just a good idea to do
No, there isn't always simple answers, its the way the world is and it can be complicted. Starting small at the beginning of every change and working towards bigger things as confidence in that area grows, sort of liking getting the wheels going makes the process personally easier. The problem-solving part is liberating, seeing possibilities, how they can implemented realistically, much of it is balancing the Fi and the Ne and about balance in life in general and as you also mentioned, modifying techniques/methods to fit our values-thats a method in itself, personalising methods so to speak.