What type is your ideal partner?

Originally Posted by vivacissimamente

Looks like INFJs are in high demand. Uh oh. I better snatch one up sooner rather than later...

I think it's because we seem like the most sexy people in theory. We're steady, dependable, creative, sensitive, selfless lovers, all that good stuff. Ni-Fe is a double edged sword for me, though. Because of my primary types influencing my behavior, I'm not as spontaneous or flirtatious as I would like to be. I honestly get friend-zoned pretty often.

All I know is that I do not like Fe users, whether dominant or auxiliary, since there seems to be a major clash. I like XXTJ. The other X's depends on the person and how strong they are in those particular cognitive functions. I am of the opinion that it is the style of judgment that really annoys me the most and the two styles of judgment are thinking and feeling. If your style of judgment is feeling, then yeah, I doubt we will get along. I'm too strong in that area and off-putting for a person who uses feeling as their judgment function.

I like ENTJ's, they share the same set of cognitive functions, just different positions and we always seem to be on the same page in around about way. I have never met an ENTJ I did not like. The only issue with ENTJ's is their energy level, since mine is really low, if theirs is high, that will cause problems. I also like my own kind, INTJ's, but it seems I've run across a lot of mistyped ones, or one's with mental issues/problems (Bipolar, ADHD, Aspergers, Depression, etc) [which really can't be typed according to the mbti], which makes me wonder if I'm the only sane one around, who doesn't pop pills or has a history of any mental issues. I can't relate to these particular "INTJ's" at all and I usually keep my distance. I like sane INTJ's though, they are awesome, but it seems to be hit and miss. *le sigh*

As far as the xNTP's, I seem to get along better with the women rather than the men. XNTP women seem to draw out the humor side of me quite easily, while the men can do the same, they just seem to go overboard with it, or they are too spastic. Maybe it's a testosterone/maturity thing? Also, ENTP is my shadow function, so maybe that has something to do with it. I'm not exactly sure what pinpoints the annoyance there. Anyways, those are the trends and or observations that seem to be the case with me, so you can take that however you like.

E- moderate
X- preferably more N than S
f- but again, in moderation
j- I appreciate the structure of other people

types I couldn't handle would be... xSTJs.. and other INTPs

Another ENTJ. They are usually doctors, lawyers and businessmen. Brains and bonds, whats not to love?

I like extroverts. I am not attracted to ENTJs, but ENTPs, ESFJs and ENFJs are my favorite. ESFPs are damn attractive, but nuts.

I can be attracted to introverts if they aren't easily offended or spineless or total and complete loners. A lot of the ones I know are one of the three.

Hehehe! I had no idea INFJ's would be the most popular. Honestly, I would have guessed ENTPs but that's probably because I voted for ENTPs as my ideal mate... omggg! ENTP's are so fun and crazy! I can't stand "boring" and "normal" people. I consider myself to be eccentric and I can't imagine being with anyone who's more sane than myself. AH! ENTPs! YOU AMAZE ME ^_^! <3

Can't really choose any specific type, because I haven't had enough experience with all of them, but I can say I have a thing for ENFP's.

Originally Posted by xReBoRN7

Can't really choose any specific type, because I haven't had enough experience with all of them, but I can say I have a thing for ENFP's.

You and me both.

I know INFJs are supposed to love ENTPs or ESTPs, but I never had a true emotional connection to Ts. I've thought a few Ts were good-looking, but nothing beyond that. There's just something about ENFPs for me, though...

I said istj, I need a sensible logical sort in my life.

Enfp, entp, intp, intj