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This is a discussion on SJ + SP Compatibility ? NT + NF within the ISTP Forum - The Mechanics forums, part of the SP's Temperament Forum- The Creators category; So I've been reading around, and it seems that a lot of times SJ's pair up with SP's, and NT's ...

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    ISTP - The Mechanics

    SJ + SP Compatibility ? NT + NF

    So I've been reading around, and it seems that a lot of times SJ's pair up with SP's,
    and NT's pair up with NF's.
    From personal experience it seems that this would make a good model,
    and it seems like David Keirsey made similar observations.
    The first two letters are mutual, and the last two are are switched around:

    ESTJ + ESFP
    ESFJ + ESTP
    ENTJ + ENFP
    ENFJ + ENTP
    ISTJ + ISFP
    ISFJ + ISTP
    INTJ + INFP
    INFJ + INTP


    And I was wondering what you guys think about this model?
    It could be my bias because I once dated an ISFJ,
    and according to this "Theory" of compatibility, we made a good match.
    She bought out emotions in me that I never knew existed lol
    But of course it didn't work out, but I still think we were very compatible.
    And of course there are many factors in a relationship, so..

    does anyone find this model worth examining?
    Could it be the 'Perfect' Compatibility model? in terms of friendships/dating/love?
    Any experiences? is Myers Briggs Compatibility model a better model?
    is Socionics a better model from personal experience?
    Anyone found a better Compatibility model?
    Is there such thing as a 'Perfect' match? etc. etc.
    any input would be useful to my understanding of the world, and just about everyone else reading too lol



    Myers Briggs says:

    ESTJ + ISTP
    ESFJ + ISFP
    ENTJ + INTP
    ENFJ + INFP
    ISTJ + ESFP
    ISFJ + ESTP
    INTJ + ENFP
    INFJ + ENTP


    Which still says that SP+SJ and NT+NF make a good match.
    and the socionics model is little more complicated..

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    ISTP - The Mechanics

    I don't believe in beginning from that end. If you feel you work well with another person, the MBTI (or other models) might be a good way to reach deeper understanding for each other, helping the relationship to develop. But looking for a certain type because you read that it should work great, or cut a relationship short because your types aren't perfect for each other in theory doesn't exactly sound like a good idea to me.

    I can say that ISTP + ISFJ works really well for me. I don't think I could stand a strong Te or Fi type for very long, though.


 

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