when you make decisions while angry, do you ever change your mind once calm again?

**n2freedom** · 02-22-2012 10:13 AM

Originally Posted by DlusionAl

Only to your ears

if you say so....and that would be to my eyes in this case......

**Delok** · 02-22-2012 10:22 AM

heh, I'm not denying i repress it...I'm scared of letting it loose! When one is handcuffed to someone who believes the word compromise means "to continually badger your opponent untill you get your way" then repressing your anger becomes a way of life.

**Erbse** · 02-22-2012 10:23 AM

Originally Posted by n2freedom

if you say so....and that would be to my eyes in this case......

YOU CAN PERCEIVE SOUNDS WITH YER EYES?!

God, the asshattery in this thread keeps on rising.

Me Gusta.

**DlusionAl** · 02-22-2012 10:29 AM

I havent been angry in a while so I dont really know if I repress it or not

**Mendi the ISFJ** · 02-22-2012 10:49 AM

Originally Posted by Delok

heh, I'm not denying i repress it...I'm scared of letting it loose! When one is handcuffed to someone who believes the word compromise means "to continually badger your opponent untill you get your way" then repressing your anger becomes a way of life.

did u suggest the handcuffs? also what type is the other you are cuffed to?

**n2freedom** · 02-22-2012 10:53 AM

Originally Posted by Erbse

YOU CAN PERCEIVE SOUNDS WITH YER EYES?!

God, the asshattery in this thread keeps on rising.

Me Gusta.

Okay you got me on that one because I led with "sounds like". LOL!

Nevertheless, bullshit is still bullshit. And, I perceive bullshit in the form of denying repressed anger.

**Delok** · 02-22-2012 10:57 AM

Originally Posted by Mendi the ISFJ

did u suggest the handcuffs? also what type is the other you are cuffed to?

Yes, I guess I did suggest these metaphorical handcuffs, otherwise known as wedding rings, 15 years ago. And if we continue on in this train of thought, I guess you could say the others I am handcuffed to are my kids, thru no fault of their own. Good thing I am not resentfull about those cuties. ;)

**Mendi the ISFJ** · 02-22-2012 11:19 AM

Originally Posted by Delok

Yes, I guess I did suggest these metaphorical handcuffs, otherwise known as wedding rings, 15 years ago. And if we continue on in this train of thought, I guess you could say the others I am handcuffed to are my kids, thru no fault of their own. Good thing I am not resentfull about those cuties. ;)

im gonna say there was some unconscious fault there.

edit: my bad i read that wrong!!

**Falling Leaves** · 02-22-2012 12:53 PM

I have done some extremely stupid things when under great amoints of emotional stress. I'm not proud of them, but I fully understand my reasoning at the time.