I just don't know how to communicate my needs. I don't want him to do stuff for me because I told him to, I want him to WANT to do it. If I tell him to text me every night, and he does, what's the fun in that? If I have to tell him what to do, then how will I know if he misses me or not?
I have issues with telling people what to do, because I think everyone has the right to be themselves (probably because I want to be accepted , therefore I accept)... but because I don't know how to communicate, I come on here and read about ENFPs, just so I can understand him better. I want to accept him, but he seems so....moving....at a very slow pace, and letting time just pass, and for me it's come on come on come on...let's do something about this already!...type thing.