Pssst. ENFPs are not your soul mates and duality represents only 25% of compatibility

**FearsomeCritter** · 07-17-2010 02:42 AM

I get along with some ENFPs very well, others, not so much. It's really a wild-card and based on their level of maturity... Not that the original poster would have any earthly idea idea what that is...

Also, we're ISTPs, if we don't like someone, we don't like them. We don't need someone to tell us we don't like someone else to figure it out, but thanks for your concern anyhow. I'm having such a realisation even now.

**ThoughtProcess** · 07-17-2010 06:19 AM

Odd topic is odd.

**madhatter** · 07-17-2010 08:07 AM

Thank you, FearsomeCritter. I was trying to figure out a way to word it just like that, but you nailed it on the head!

**Primequis** · 07-17-2010 08:14 AM

Somebody has some unresolved issues! A type in itself is not all bad at all, it all depends on the individual themselves. I'd suggest chilling a bit and confronting whatever issue you have directly instead of attacking an entire personality type.

**dude10000** · 07-17-2010 08:25 AM

This thread is so weird.

**solitard** · 07-17-2010 11:36 AM

wow. but, personally, i think i prefer ESFJs rather than ENFPs. i once had ESFJ as my roommates, and we get along great, she gives me personal space that i need, and i can talk almost anything with her.

i have 2 ENFPs as my housemates now, they're great, they do share similar interest with me, but, i don't think i can open myself up to them.

**AEIOU** · 07-17-2010 11:47 AM

Originally Posted by Functianalyst

In actuality the relationship between ISTP (ISTj) and ENFP (ENFp) would be a relationship of conflict:

No wonder I can't stand a certain ENFP.
And no wonder too, why she is always having a never ending series of new "crisis" with her ISTP boyfriend. Their relationship will forever be a Sisyphean task.

Basically CrimsonIce is correct! I don't even have to understand the theory behind it to get it either. I could simply just listen to my own gut feeling.

**Indigo Aria** · 07-17-2010 12:38 PM

Originally Posted by AEIOU

No wonder I can't stand a certain ENFP.
And no wonder too, why she is always having a never ending series of new "crisis" with her ISTP boyfriend. Their relationship will forever be a Sisyphean task.

Basically CrimsonIce is correct! I don't even have to understand the theory behind it to get it either. I could simply just listen to my own gut feeling.

**madhatter** · 07-17-2010 12:45 PM

I was just put off by his approach. I personally believe that any type can have a relationship with any other type, if they work at it. I could care less about type "compatibility". I draw my own conclusions.