This is a discussion on Dear Istps. within the ISTP Forum - The Mechanics forums, part of the SP's Temperament Forum- The Creators category; Originally Posted by PSchall Why ? I know why I want to. Because ISTP's are not labored. They don't talk ...
Now that's what I call good taste!
Why are you calling yourself a dream killer?
I want to date an ISTP because I think it would change my life for the better.
We are life changers...
Though we do get a few ENFP females a week in here, asking us WTF is wrong with their boyfriend. So if you're up for a challenge, start looking for the reserved yet confident types.
I wouldn't want to date someone based just on personality type, there's a lot more to each individual. I can see how someone might come to the conclusion that a particular personality type would be beneficial for them to date, though.
I do, however, long to date a particular ISTP and I can tell you why. He is really direct, no games - I like the way he communicates a lot. He's intelligent, funny, interesting. He does stuff - as in, has his work, his hobbies, is active with them. He's flexible, understanding, perceptive, and... sweet - if you look at actions for what they are, i.e., don't read into them, don't try to assign more meaning than there is, and don't expect things to (un)necessarily be said. To me, this is really sincere.
Also, I like thinkers. They balance me out, bring me back to reality. I've got enough annoying emotions for the both of us.
I do know it would be challenging, but all of the above would make giving it a shot worth it to me.
Alas, it will probably never happen with this one. But, yeah, you guys are pretty awesome.
That's a first.
Ok I will date you.