My son,(15) is an ISTJ and recently lost two classmates in a drunk driving accident. Of course, he is very rational about the whole thing, stating to me that is was stupid to not call their parents, to get into a car with a drunk driver etc. However, the concern I have is that he is obviously having difficulty dealing with this situation. He has become even more moody than usual, he hugs me like he is afraid I won't be there tomarrow, he has said how traumatic it is to look over at the empty seats next to his and realize that they will never be there again. I have kept a very open dialog, encourage him to mourn, and am attending the funerals with him for support.
I was wondering if there is anything specific I can do to help a young sensor, in a house full of intuitives, deal with this. (We are all NTs and NFs). I was hoping for some concrete examples of things I can do, if I am not already doing them, that will help him get through this time with his emotions intact(yeah, I know, an INFJ thing to say....).
Thanks in advance.