[Blue Butterfly]

For each personality type I would like to know What do you struggle with the most in life? Problems you try to overcome but seem to never find that perfect solution? Please answer only in your personality type. I want to learn more about each type so I can grow as a person.



For me as an INFP, my biggest problem is extreme difficulties dealing with other people. I have very intense emotions that makes life very difficult at times.

[SeekJess]

Dealing with emotional turmoil is my biggest problem, I always deal with things later. Its like I mentally set them aside, and then deal with them. My ex boyfriend broke up with me September 24th this year, and it has just hit me. And it is really bothering me now, but at the same time it is not.

My mom died November 29th, and it hasn't hit me yet.

[Blue Butterfly]

Dealing with emotional turmoil is my biggest problem, I always deal with things later. Its like I mentally set them aside, and then deal with them. My ex boyfriend broke up with me September 24th this year, and it has just hit me. And it is really bothering me now, but at the same time it is not.

My mom died November 29th, and it hasn't hit me yet.

I am sorry to hear about your mom. That is always a tough one to go through. I lost mine back in 2003 and that was hard on me to deal with it. If you support when you do deal with it I hope you know I am here for you. Just send me a private message.

[franktcpa]

Very sorry about your mom. I haven't lost mine yet - I don't know how I would react.

[Mercer]

For each personality type I would like to know What do you struggle with the most in life? Problems you try to overcome but seem to never find that perfect solution? Please answer only in your personality type. I want to learn more about each type so I can grow as a person.

For me as an INFP, my biggest problem is extreme difficulties dealing with other people. I have very intense emotions that makes life very difficult at times.

i dont like other people. i have trouble in social situations. i have trouble with women because its hard for me to radiate a high status light. i just learned how much i like to enforce the rules, but i have trouble saying no to people sometimes. i need to develop a clear idea where my allegiance lies, so i know where to put my loyalty.

[Blue Butterfly]

i dont like other people. i have trouble in social situations. i have trouble with women because its hard for me to radiate a high status light. i just learned how much i like to enforce the rules, but i have trouble saying no to people sometimes. i need to develop a clear idea where my allegiance lies, so i know where to put my loyalty.

Me either. Well I love people but I can't deal with all the cruelty I see people doing. And don't feel alone I have trouble with men. I either attract the wrong ones and never the ones I want.

That would be a difficult balance to enjoy enforcing the rules and not being able to say no to others. Others will often want to break the rules. You may need to decide way you want to live your life. Otherwise you will always be torn between the two.

[Stoic]

I would have to say my biggest problem in life is not being able to open up to anyone. I keep myself hidden behind a blank expression and no one can tell what I am feeling. There are times when I would just like to let myself spill out when they ask "are you doing okay?" but I casually respond with "I'm fine, don't worry about me". I can't burden myself on other people, no matter how much help I want, I must go alone to prove to myself that I don't need anyone and can take care of any problem by myself. On top of that, I have no one that I am connected to. I would say the closest "connections" I have are with my cousin and my sister, but my cousin (being the highly extroverted person that she is) is always out and about, and I don't live with my sister or talk to her much. My life is on repeat of work, come home, internet, sleep, work... I would really like the break this paradigm, but I need help in that, and then there is the part of me that won't seek it. Although, for some reason I can talk about it online. When I think about what most other people are doing my age (I am pretty sure they call it having a life, but I am not completely sure :P) I get a knot in my chest thinking of how pathetic my life has become...

Then after that I feel even worse, because if this is my biggest problem, then I really have no problem at all, considering people like Seekjess (again my condolences) who have problems way worse than what I do...

[SeekJess]

I don't think anyone knows how they will react until they do in situations like that, it just knocks you on your ass.

[SeekJess]

I would have to say my biggest problem in life is not being able to open up to anyone. I keep myself hidden behind a blank expression and no one can tell what I am feeling. There are times when I would just like to let myself spill out when they ask "are you doing okay?" but I casually respond with "I'm fine, don't worry about me". I can't burden myself on other people, no matter how much help I want, I must go alone to prove to myself that I don't need anyone and can take care of any problem by myself. On top of that, I have no one that I am connected to. I would say the closest "connections" I have are with my cousin and my sister, but my cousin (being the highly extroverted person that she is) is always out and about, and I don't live with my sister or talk to her much. My life is on repeat of work, come home, internet, sleep, work... I would really like the break this paradigm, but I need help in that, and then there is the part of me that won't seek it. Although, for some reason I can talk about it online. When I think about what most other people are doing my age (I am pretty sure they call it having a life, but I am not completely sure :P) I get a knot in my chest thinking of how pathetic my life has become...

Then after that I feel even worse, because if this is my biggest problem, then I really have no problem at all, considering people like Seekjess (again my condolences) who have problems way worse than what I do...

don't say that you don't have issues, or mine our more server. everyone has their own shit to deal with, and it affects everyone differently. you are just as equally important as anyone else my dear.

[Pa3s]

Well, there are only very few people I really like as friends. It's almost impossible for me to just go to a party and have fun, I already tried it, but I always feel totally alien there. I just can't open up so easily. No one actually speaks with me, and I speak to nobody as well. Besides, what should I say? I'm not a big fan of small talk and I also think a loud party is not the best place to talk. But all this is not so bad, I learned to get along with it. But it's always hard if you meet new people.
Just like: "Hey, new friend come on, we party all night!"
And I say: "No sorry, I sort of... hate it."

Many people would probably say I don't have any life at all. I think the opinion of others is no problem, but all this makes it harder to meet people you actually would like. Well, even if there are some problems, I'm happy with my life as it is.