But as far as needing to hear that someone likes me... I regard that more as confirmation. I can understand how the ENFPish need for constant affirmation can become exhausting for others. But surely the logical ISTJ can respect that I don't want to jump to conclusions about someone's innermost feelings for me unless he states them himself. If a man never says, "I like you" or "I care about you" or "I love you" then who am I to infer what's felt in his heart?