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This is a discussion on The ISTJ Rant/Rave Thread within the ISTJ Forum - The Duty Fulfillers forums, part of the SJ's Temperament Forum- The Overseers category; Originally Posted by MBTI Enthusiast Exactly. No one cares about the ISTJ females! I have nothing to contribute to those ...
I have often noticed that I can come across as harsh. I read that INFJs are introverted feelers and extroverted thinkers, plus being a judger I am direct, so sometimes I have to put effort in to softening what I say, depending on who I am around. Thanks. :)
Last edited by Cleo; 04-08-2011 at 09:24 PM.
If this offends anyone, I am sincerely sorry. But I gotta vent this.
I, for the life of me, do not get the point of getting drunk without any added benefit. Drinking games, fun. Going out with friends and drinking sometimes, fun (though I'm not seeing the point of doing it every weekend, somehow if your only idea of relaxing is completely polluting your senses, there's something wrong). Drinking when the forced situation is going to be boring/dreadful no matter what (like a dance at a convention), understandable. The following are cases of drinking where I start to doubt one's intelligence
-Drinking an amount large enough to get your drunk when your only plan that evening is to sit around and socialize.
-Buying alcohol for the pure reason that it will get you drunk fast. Taste is sacrificed if you can get drunk quicker!
-I'm not saying that this is a bad thing because most likely somebody on here does this, but I have to admit that I will never understand the point of pre-gaming except when your pre-gaming for a dreadful event/an event where you won't be able to drink at.
I was raised a German Lutheran, we enjoy our alcohol. But we actually enjoy it, we don't buy disgusting stuff and drink it as fast as possible. So I may be a little bias. But yeah, I guess I'm kind of annoyed because I came home and a group of people in my living room are just sitting around and drinking. That's the whole plan of the evening, to sit around and get drunk. Maybe I'm just getting tired of empty cans of beer and four loko sitting around the kitchen. Maybe I think that if you're getting drunk two weekends in a row, I'm starting to wonder if you have any other forms of fun. I don't really know why I'm annoyed.
@Cleo Can I also suggest that don't write posts/ threads when you are clearly very upset/ angry and are going to be using language that might come off as offensive. And if you do, then clarify by saying that you are venting, so people don't misinterpret you.
I skimmed through the whole thing, and I must say, your language was as much to blame as amanda's posts were hilariously stupid.
Brace yourselves, here it comes.
I am pretty fucking pissed off right now. I just discovered something here on PerC that represents a staggering hypocrisy. I personally witnessed something happen recently that I probably should have intervened in, something that felt inappropriate at the time, and now I see something parallel to that has happened, and those involved in the earlier event that I stood by and watched have taken the opposite position. The hypocrisy, and my own failure to intervene in the earlier event, have my adrenaline cranking. I feel an inner conflict between my drive to expose this bullshit and my desire for peace, considering how many more problems I would cause than solve. I have a birthday party I organized for my six year old in thirty minutes, and I somehow need to get my shit under control before this thing starts.
Time to go lose myself in this as a task.