Do ISTJ's at times appear strict and fixed just to hide their core of sincerity and sensitivity?
If yes why?
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Do ISTJ's at times appear strict and fixed just to hide their core of sincerity and sensitivity?
If yes why?
we normally appear strict because we are very certain of something. I don't see how that could be tied to emotions, as its an opinion on a subject.
Though others talk about how ISTJ's have a cold exterior and a soft interior, I've often found myself to show the emotion in an authentic manner to know its real, if that makes any sense. Then again I sometimes will just observe, think, and feel things and not bother to show them.
ISTJ's also have this ''Just because I seem more quiet and colder, it doesn't mean I don't care and I want you to know that'' which is interesting.
At least for the ISTJ I know![]()
I might appear unyielding or even aloof, but it's certainly not a conscious decision to make myself appear tougher than I am. A subconscious decision, possibly: a defence mechanism to keep people at bay until I trust them? I will say that expressing emotion in front of people I don't know well makes me feel incredibly vulnerable. It makes sense that I would try to prevent it.
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