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    Appearing strict

    Do ISTJ's at times appear strict and fixed just to hide their core of sincerity and sensitivity?

    If yes why?

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    we normally appear strict because we are very certain of something. I don't see how that could be tied to emotions, as its an opinion on a subject.
    Though others talk about how ISTJ's have a cold exterior and a soft interior, I've often found myself to show the emotion in an authentic manner to know its real, if that makes any sense. Then again I sometimes will just observe, think, and feel things and not bother to show them.
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    ISTJ's also have this ''Just because I seem more quiet and colder, it doesn't mean I don't care and I want you to know that'' which is interesting.

    At least for the ISTJ I know
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    Quote Originally Posted by izzie View Post
    Do ISTJ's at times appear strict and fixed just to hide their core of sincerity and sensitivity?
    I might appear unyielding or even aloof, but it's certainly not a conscious decision to make myself appear tougher than I am. A subconscious decision, possibly: a defence mechanism to keep people at bay until I trust them? I will say that expressing emotion in front of people I don't know well makes me feel incredibly vulnerable. It makes sense that I would try to prevent it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by izzie View Post
    Do ISTJ's at times appear strict and fixed just to hide their core of sincerity and sensitivity?

    If yes why?
    No.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wake View Post
    we normally appear strict because we are very certain of something. I don't see how that could be tied to emotions, as its an opinion on a subject.
    Though others talk about how ISTJ's have a cold exterior and a soft interior, I've often found myself to show the emotion in an authentic manner to know its real, if that makes any sense. Then again I sometimes will just observe, think, and feel things and not bother to show them.
    True, but for this discussion we would need to know which definition of strict Izzie means. I think she may be meaning strict as in austere...but I'm not sure.
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    Quote Originally Posted by niss63 View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by izzie View Post
    Do ISTJ's at times appear strict and fixed just to hide their core of sincerity and sensitivity?

    If yes why?
    No.
    good point I never really answered the question completely. No.
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    Quote Originally Posted by izzie View Post
    ISTJ's also have this ''Just because I seem more quiet and colder, it doesn't mean I don't care and I want you to know that'' which is interesting.

    At least for the ISTJ I know
    This is generally true. I'm not sure of the point as it relates to this thread...
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    Quote Originally Posted by cursivelogic View Post
    I might appear unyielding or even aloof, but it's certainly not a conscious decision to make myself appear tougher than I am. A subconscious decision, possibly: a defence mechanism to keep people at bay until I trust them? I will say that expressing emotion in front of people I don't know well makes me feel incredibly vulnerable. It makes sense that I would try to prevent it.
    This answers what I suspect is Izzie's question. If so, it's cursivelogic, FTW.
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    cursivelogic answered it good
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