Despite (???) being an ISTJ, I've had my fair share of dates. Some were great, some tanked. Don't be afraid or unwilling to date solely based on your personality type.
Secondly, chivalry is NOT dead; I don't care that it's 2010. While I would never want or expect someone that I was simply *dating* to "support me" financially in any way, shape, or form, if a man ASKS ME on a DATE, he'd better be prepared to pay for it. I go "Dutch" with my girlfriends. Likewise, while I am perfectly capable of opening doors on my own, I DO notice when a man does it for me, and yes, I DO appreciate it.
Label me a traditionalist if you wish, but I appreciate and embrace the differences between men and women. Both sexes are special in their own unique ways, and those differences should be celebrated