I find that these days I have been going out of my way to cater to other people around me. For example, I live in a house with 10 other college students and I find that I am always trying to hurry up in the bathroom in case others need it, be quick to use the kitchen, clean up after myself and not leave anything in the way, etc. but it is definitely not reciprocated by everyone. I also tend to wake up earlier than my roommate and I am extra careful to be quiet in the morning, but when she gets in late sometimes she makes all the noise she needs and turns on all the lights she needs as well while I am trying to sleep. Now I am not saying that I absolutely expect these people to be more considerate of me or that I even desperately want people to be cleaner and hurry up (although it would be nice), but I just hate how it is not an equal give and take relationship sometimes- aka I feel like I am getting the short end of the stick and being taken advantage of. It is almost as if some of my housemates expect me to cater to them, while they can do what they want and get what they want when they want it. Do any other ISTJs experience this, and is there any reason why we do this???