I'm an INFJ-girl, and my best friend is an ISTJ-boy. We've known eachother for several years, and he means so much to me :) But, at the same time, he is a mystery :P
1) What hurts an ISTJ..? Sometimes I say things that he gets really upset with, that I would never have thought about could make him sad.. I don't like to upset him, so what does an typical ISTJ get hurt by?
2) What does an ISTJ need in a friendship? This is a friendship between a girl and a boy, if thats makes a difference..
3) He needs intimacy. Not of the sexual kind, but he needs to me "touched" : ) He's not attracted to me or anything, but still.. How do I do this?:P Me and him have never had any intimacy between eachother, so it's a littlebit difficult to change my habbits :P
4) He does'nt take a hint. Is it best to say stright out what I need from him..?
Yeah.. many questions, but okay ;P
Do you like him?