Personally I'm always trying to move toward the person I want to be. I understand it will never fully happen but I enjoy watching the progress and seeing the results.
Currently working on:
Being friendlier at work, and wierding people out.
Understanding the more emotional people better. (this is for my book)
Changing the when and what I eat. (trying to lower carbs, Sweet Tea, and reduce my dinner time meal's size)
Being more forgiving of my mothers memory loss.
Stifling the desire to contact my estranged brother. (it always ends up in an yelling match)
Making myself more productive by resisting the urge to start playing WoW again.