[niss]

The truth for me would be,"I like you just fine but do not want to endure putting up with your "issues" all the time. I need some space and a get out of jail card for when people get angry at me but that is not easy to come by all the time. I often wonder why people can`t let go of small stuff or act super sensitive about things that seem insignificant to me. I understand a major bridge burning incident but I can`t understand how this one person permanently scratched me off their "friend list" because I did not do everything they said when they said it. I have my own mind.

Yet, I can seem so "forgiving" but it is really because I never cared that much in the first place. :p

I feel your pain. Sometimes I pretend to care about acquaintances so the noise of their whining will subside.

[niss]

As an ENTP my Si is my weakest function whereas ISTJ its your strongest. Could any of you guys provide any advice on how to strengthen my Si? I bet if I did I could get a lot more done and be focused.

Impossible to do. Don't think of functions as skill sets which can be developed. Instead, think of them as cognitive processes which, when coupled with other cognitive processes, allow you to perceive the best route to a particular objective for you as an individual.

This means that while I, as a Si-dom, will never develop the intuitive powers of a Ne-dom, I can, through stored life experiences, allow Si and Te to overcome that lack of seeing the possibilities. Where we fail, is in giving too much rein to our dominant function, allowing it to wreck havoc with our thinking and imploding upon itself. To mature means to develop a fluid relationship between our primary functions, giving each one its space and not allowing any function to take control. You can recognize this happening by examining your life for balance.

[Cari Knip]

1. Sometimes. If I'm working on a complicated chemistry problem, or for some unknown reason, I always blab to myself while I'm working on a puzzle. Other than that, I might as well be a monk.

2. Heck yes. I strive for perfection, and when I mess up, I freak out, at least internally. I know, the other kids hated when I was younger and I'd get a 98 on a test and I'd be upset for the rest of the day. ... I see nothing wrong with desiring perfection, gosh darn it! Other than the fact it takes a lot of energy..and I'd probably be happier more of the time, but still, nothing wrong with it! (:

[Sela]

I see nothing wrong with desiring perfection, gosh darn it!

Are you sure you're not primarily an E1 in disguise? ;-)
... that was me last night and this morning, after reviewing the video of the hot rod racing practice that we did last night about 60x.

[Yardiff Bey]

Other than that, I might as well be a monk.

Ah yes, those monks!

[snapdragons]

@Fourplay, I'd consider trying some sensory experiences, like going out to nature and observing or trying new food combinations. I think the food would help you on a more personal level, as you're eating :) Seriously, not to sound you know...sexy or anything...but I'd wear a blindfold and try different foods and just focus on the smell, taste, texture, and your overall impressions of the food. Think of new ways to describe the food. Don't resort to "sweet, salty, bitter, and sour." Think of savory, nutty, rich, and tangy.

Or you could watch the movie Ratatouille to get what I'm talking about. He was definitely an S.

[bob_toeback]

and all above, all below. This all walk to walk to wall below beneath a walkedway cat alyst a list a cat to bat way the dark realms and fantastic imaginations of this song about congrats and congruesnts and the wall is that it? a wall again, too much far too far wealth the best to all those who wish me well on my travels and hopefully I get out of here one day to the best the worst like that book about cities and the such there of the cities and the HUMPHREY BOGART character, cant remember his name, oh ya my jam, YO JOE MTHERFUCKER. heres lookin at you kid, and hopin willis says that in the movie about my favorite heroes, manly heroes and such.I think id make a good GI Joe mocvie, guess I should yknow I GUESS I SHOULD and forget all predestined bullshit that people throw down upon themselves and cage match the inner wealth and weather I guess devil, and the lightinging striking AGAIN AGAIN AGAIn I like that song I guess, evenm if its weird. woiw I dont know what was weird about THE WAY YOU LOOK oor wait too good to be true, baby I like you I long to be close to you and such. late for work,? screw it. Do you know what 'screw' means? no? WELL THEN DONT USE IT THANKS. also Fight club. that movies spoke to me, and I grasp I dont undserstand what p[eople get from it. I know what I get. I mean Pitt was an inspirational hero... some people think he was like a mad man or soemthing. why? becvauqse he wanted to do away with all that shit that keeps us down? do away with cogged wheel stuff? whatever. if thats all it takes let em have it. alrighty right? RIGHTY RIGHT arr poiarte talk and dont bark, sounds like thunder now... thunder in the valley I wanna go home, down in the valley the homesweet valley. I want to keep writing tuco keeps barking ergh brbr yooo... baCK, IN MY SUIT A SCARLET LETTER ISNT BLACK, PAST IN OPRESENT IN FUTURE BUT NO ONE EVER LIVED IN THE past, NO ONE WILL ever LIVE IN THE FUTURE, THE PRESENT is THE FORM OF ALL LIFE, AND i LOVED aLPHAVILLE, SHOULD i PUT IT ON MY TOP TEN? MAYBE MAYBE NOT ... i LIKED IT i PROBABLY SHOULD ,i SHOULD ALSO DO AWAY WITH ALL THAT TIES ME TO THIS WORLD... ALL THAT TIES ME TO MEDIOCRITY, GET UP AND GO DONT BE FLIPPANT BUT BE DIRECTIFIED AND FIND THAT CALLING, find what/ i FOUND IT ALREADY SO FUYCK YOU. and I have the caps lock on, for how loong i will never know. so I move I accept death and that is why I choose to smoke. I mean,ma all the people who say smoking is bad for you, fear death. FEAR ITY. but they do not know that death as well, like present, is the form of everything. living or dead, you were all one or the other and that is why I choose not to condemn mhyself for having a knack in smoking and wanting to. coffeee and cigarettes was a good movie, I should do what. coffeee cigarettes and the pie mother fucker. point blank. BEACH boys. I like theyr e music , speaks to me about summer and all that. summer madness is what chet said. after he or before? he got his teeth busted over the way of a tabl;e yo. thats right, CHET speaks in riddles, even though he speaks real clear english.. shoudl I say. I CNTAN| TGET BEHINF THAT, now my typing is getting messed like you wouldnt believe. this has been fun, I like the fact you read this, I thank yopu but I am not DONE yet. listen. look at yourself. is that the person you wish to be? better yetm ware you where you want to be in life? or are you like the rest, waiting for the day where you can just fucking die already and not have to wrroy about bills? I mean serious. what would you have liked to do before you die? walk on the moon? Then do it or die trying. your gonna die ANYWAYS SO WHAT DOES IT MATTER? IM NOT SURE IT DOES, BUT YOU SEEM TO THINK SO. i READ ABOUT SHADOWS. because the fight club... and it seems that LOVE yes LOVE is just becaus eyou are admiring youreself. and that the dislike of someone is because you disliked yourself. so what does it maytter? maybe love exists. I mean, carlkee... come out with it, I always dug her, but Im not sure im gonna waste my life and all that because of her. we may keep in touch but I shall rather live ina cafe smoiking and drinking then get some white picket BULLshit yes you guiessed it, r did you>? I have 5 riddles for you, pick a number. and not 5. so you walk into a bar, and see a dead guy, huinched over. he drank himself to death. the store gets robbed and everyone is happy. robin hood is robin' in da hood bitch. so now we wonder why the course language, well because I felt like typing it. so he walks down the street and sees friar tuck. and if you were dislexic itd be the fire truck. now another, he looks in the mirror and rememebrs the dead guy in the bar. so what does he do? he gets rib of his riches and lives on the street. he walks across the country and swims until he gets eaten by a shark and or cannibals. so now I ask what number you chose? if you didnt pick one, you were obviously too focused on my intricate storu to actually care what I was saying, you were to focused on the theatrics and all that. so what numbewr> idf you picked 5 I must say I to.,df you not to. and now one more, if you did not pick one, you may have alzeimers like in rescue me. if you did pick one, the number you chose was one. and I must say I caught you ina swirling mess of popcorn and you know, the average newstand and this song is jasons boursen even thoug th enew movie will probably be BOGUS like in Muppets. jeremy whatever who cares, you had good movies, now you a mega star. good for you I guess. but that doesnt help me. and guess what. no one does except me. its the same for all of us. yoiu are born, you go to school, work, then die, said from rescue me as well. and I liked it sh it spoke to me, man Im dislexic, or typing too fast.. jesus yo yo. anyways I guess I censored it. fuck censorship how bout that. can yoiu censor real life? NO? well then get outta my face fucker. and if you dont like it, you can shove it, but you dont like it you love it. heart songs is a cool song... but that wasnt it. thats greatest man who ever lived. thats another good one, I like weezer and need to watch more stage stuff, more movies, and more bob dylan stuff. I like life and it takes a lot to say that, most people hate it and end up like grandma and grandpa, married but lonely, married but annoyed out of their fucking minds. talking to birds. STOP! turn around, and walk out da door yo.

[niss]

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"I'll have what he's having. Hemlock, is it?"

Charlie in Top Gun 1986