He actually thanked me for being patient with him. He explained that he does not express emotions in public. He keeps that separate- it is private for him. Being ENFP I want to HUG all of the actors and high five the janitor for doing such a good job. I recognize our differences.
What do I focus on? What he is telling me in private. The magnetic attraction we have. His happiness when we are together. If an ISFP will let me into his world and express emotions, yes I will have patience when he needs his space too.