[Tega1]

Where do you think is the best place to meet a girl? I don't think a nightclub always is. The music is loud and you can't hear yourself talk. You have to keep screaming lol. Your throat gets dry from it. A cafe is a nice place a bit quieter and sometimes people are just there on their own. I've never gone up to a girl and gotten to know her if I like her. I'm always scared they would think i'm weird or strange. I must be scared of getting rejection. I think i'm interested in being in a relationship. I should probably try making friends would a female rather than thinking of being in a relationship. I don't really have a close female friend so it would be better that way.

[DMack]

Where ever you can get one to smile at you.

[Slogo]

At a friend or co-workers party is a good place. Recently, I met a cool girl that I went to school with a long time ago at a bar for a co-worker's birthday. Turns out she's a sister of a co-worker of mine. She hugged me, so naturally I got attracted to her...plus she was cute to me. She was part of the table of co-workers, so it isn't even difficult to approach her. I didn't even expect to see her there...so sometimes if you make yourself go to social things with friends you may find someone you like. They may try to hook you up with someone if they know you're looking or not...someone may just be there to meet a known guy in a circle of friends.

Another good place is school clubs or interests groups, methinks. You get to know people or you discover you like someone based on a similar interests....it's not too bad to ask to hang out with a girl if you have something in common and try to be friends first.

There's online dating too...I've tried it with varying success. You can find out if you like someone's interests, pictures, and values. It can be competitive though...the only success I've had is when someone messages me first...I give up too easily.

[RamonV]

Internet: Facebook.

[Still Standing]

Whatever place that you enjoy going to for its own sake. Wouldn't you want to meet someone who shares your interests?

[Tega1]

ok cool. Yea I would. I love to meet a girl who is into formula one, computer games, anime, music and film. Haven't met many girls into formula one.

[Leeoflittlefaith]

I'd actually wouldn't mind a girl who has interests quite opposite to mine. I understand this might make conversations difficult, but I'm very interested in difference, and that way the girl could lead me into new experiences.