I find it interesting that no one pointed out his age, which is 41. All of my friends said he is just a creeper. I generally assume all adults are mature and responsible, but that's just a stereotype.
For different goals in relationships, I have to agree with you. Relationships are very important to me, while he says sex is the only thing valuable to him... Or at least implied it. "You be surprised that everything is about sex."
I could ask him, but I really do not like conflicts or confrontation. Not to mention he hates personal stuff. Is there a nice way to ask? Without making him flip out on me?