[DayLightSun]

I'm pretty sure this guy is an ISFP and he is really gentel and sweet.
He made it clear that he likes me but since he doesn't talk that much and has a huge wall it makes it really hard for me to communicate with him
We are both trying.
He gets nervous and I feed off of that and then I choke can some one help me?

[banja]

Hmm...
I know that for me the more I pressure myself, the less I actually talk, because I freeze up and my mind goes into mumble jumble.
What helps me is to focus just on one thing: the conversation. If I start focusing on how I sound/what the person thinks/how I'm not talking etc., then I freeze and turn blank. Especially, if I'm attracted to them.
So, just forgetting about everything else (including how nervous you or he is) and just focusing on being there, in the conversation, is what I found helps me a lot.
It takes a while to get comfortable with people (at least for me), so maybe just try to be accepting of him, and try not to put too much pressure on the whole thing. Same goes for him. It should be fun, you know. :) Maybe ask him some questions, find out what he likes, or do something active together.

[Sleepy]

You could quit talking and try something else...

[Trope]

You could quit talking and try something else...

That's exactly what I told her yesterday!

The problem was coming up with a good something else.

[Linesky]

Take initiative around him, be positive.
If you'll do this it'll encourage him too to open up to you
:)

[starri]

That's exactly what I told her yesterday!

The problem was coming up with a good something else.

sports?

crafts?

anime?

movie theaters?

sex?

cartoons?

shopping?

makeup?

world domination?

bikini lines?

traveling?

the 3rd world?

snorkeling?

/ end weird brainstorming.

you feed off of his anxiety?

I actually tried something, but I haven't perfected it yet. Once with an INTP.. I actually sat quiet. It took the most effort, and most brainpower focus I could muster... but it was something. Then after the awkwardness starts building up; try touching his hand, eye gazing or something of the sort.. basically force him to talk... (by acting like an I)..

[musicalpyramid]

I actually tried something, but I haven't perfected it yet. Once with an INTP.. I actually sat quiet. It took the most effort, and most brainpower focus I could muster... but it was something. Then after the awkwardness starts building up; try touching his hand, eye gazing or something of the sort.. basically force him to talk... (by acting like an I)..

hehe, i love that you had to use maxi brain power to stay quiet

It's a good theory you've got there, I like it. Thing is, us introverts, while quite happy with silence, will come forward and talk so long as we are given the chance to. We take longer as we are spending time choosing our words carefully - your theory removes the problem of the introverted boy panicking about not having some witty off-the-cuff remark to say in response when the extroverted girl speaks. He can then set the pace and relax, after which he won't mind being himself with her, as he is less likely to be overcome by his paranoya about not being extroverted enough for her.

[DayLightSun]

sports?

crafts?

anime?

movie theaters?

sex?

cartoons?

shopping?

makeup?

world domination?

bikini lines?

traveling?

the 3rd world?

snorkeling?

/ end weird brainstorming.

you feed off of his anxiety?

I actually tried something, but I haven't perfected it yet. Once with an INTP.. I actually sat quiet. It took the most effort, and most brainpower focus I could muster... but it was something. Then after the awkwardness starts building up; try touching his hand, eye gazing or something of the sort.. basically force him to talk... (by acting like an I)..

See what I mean Trope about ENFPs!
I asked my best friend shes an ENFP and she came up with a lot of stuff too. rofl
I think he might be an ISFJ i have been quieter and been giving him space. He smiles a lot. Which is awesome and he thanked me for a bag of cookies I gave him rofl.
I do feed off of anxiety I don't know why?
But I will keep at it I really like him.

[starri]

See what I mean Trope about ENFPs!
I asked my best friend shes an ENFP and she came up with a lot of stuff too. rofl
I think he might be an ISFJ i have been quieter and been giving him space. He smiles a lot. Which is awesome and he thanked me for a bag of cookies I gave him rofl.
I do feed off of anxiety I don't know why?
But I will keep at it I really like him.

I added you on gmail earlier today btw.

[banja]

You could quit talking and try something else...